There is a difference between a woman who complains that she is “fat” simply to get a compliment out of someone (because she knows she isn’t); and a woman who genuinely sees a distorted image of herself when she looks in the mirror.
I met a beautiful Italian girl not so long ago who obviously hated what she saw. Nothing I said could break through this mental fortress that she had constructed around herself that told her she was overweight and unattractive. What was worse is that she can’t remember a time she wasn’t on a diet!
How constricting it must feel to be on a diet your entire life.
I wish we could start a body revolution that declares women stop hating their bodies and start enjoying them. We only get the one body; we can’t exchange it (I know, I've tried; but apparently the Almighty doesn't do that sort of thing.) and we shouldn’t take it for granted. I always love the line from the Sunscreen song that says:
“Enjoy your body,
use it every way you can…don’t be afraid of it,
use it every way you can…don’t be afraid of it,
or what other people think of it,
it’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever own..”
There is a lot of great advice in that song……..
I really am preaching to myself here more than anyone else. I have more “fat” days than not. But from today I am going to start my own little body revolution and believe that, in the words of Baz Luhrmann, “….You’re not as fat as you imagine.”
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